Hi Derek, and welcome.
I'm sure I'll be corrected on a few of these things, but here's my take
First and perhaps most importantly, make sure that the yeast you're using is a real lager yeast, because most yeasts that come with "lager" kits aren't lager yeasts, but ale. Coopers Pilsner and I think the Heritage Lager (but not the regular "lager") come with a lager yeast, for instance. If in doubt, ditch the kit yeast and buy a true lager yeast from your HB store.
Pitch a larger-than-usual quantity (i.e. if you were brewing ale) of yeast at about 20C, then drop the temperature to 9-12C. (BTW, 11-12 isn't very cold for a fridge. Are you sure about this?) Make a starter or pitch a couple of sachets of yeast. There are instructions about starters in
this threadIn relation to raising the temperature before bottling, what you're referring to is a diacetyl rest. This involves slowly raising the temerature to about 20C after fermentation has finished and holding it there for a few days before reducing it again before bottling. Do a search for diacetyl rest on the forum and you'll find heaps of information.
Someone better qualified than me should be able to comment on the rate of priming, although there have been various threads on the subject so a search will probably answer your questions.
Hope this helps.
Cheers,
Oliver